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Could you comment on how much difference heterosexual sex has from lesbian sex? Apart from its difference due to penetration, sex must sustain a mutual energy between individuals, therefore it is not so much about penetrating or feeling the penetration, it is about what you want to see and feel and having contact with another person how it makes you feel. How is your sexual energy? greetings, thank you for your support